LOVE woes.
I have made a promise to myself to not get involved with a guy due to the following reasons:
1) Out of LONELINESS.
2) with a guy who has just broken up wit his ex-gf
3) who has had the history of breaking up and getting back together with the ex-gf within the span of a couple of weeks or so.
Why do I say that?
1) If I get involved with another person out of loneliness, I know that the person is technically not the right person for me. I know lots of people are doing it. That's fine for them.
I've almost done that a lot of times this year, but decided to put a stop to it, coz I decided that is not the best thing for myself.
And if I do that, despite my loneliness, I know I would be wasting the other party's time and effort.
I KNOW What I WANT, and when I settle, I'm compromising my beliefs.
It would go against whatever other principles I have.
Thanks, but, I'm not getting any younger either. I don't really want to get into flings.
Well, I almost did that.. And I totally feel ashamed of myself for not sticking to my guns.
2) Ok, the reason is because he is in a Rebound. I cant and will not accept myself as someone else's Rebound case. Thank you, but I have my pride and image. I'd like to keep it that way. Thank You Very Much.
3) Hmmm...almost got into that one recently. It makes perfect sense, doesn't it? I bailed out even before I could touch the salt water on the beach side. Wait for three months at least for clearance before even trying to think about it. If that's possible anyway.
Imagine getting into the dating process, and halfway the ex decides that he/she wants to get back together. Hmmm..not a very wonderful sight to behold for the other party.
1) Out of LONELINESS.
2) with a guy who has just broken up wit his ex-gf
3) who has had the history of breaking up and getting back together with the ex-gf within the span of a couple of weeks or so.
Why do I say that?
1) If I get involved with another person out of loneliness, I know that the person is technically not the right person for me. I know lots of people are doing it. That's fine for them.
I've almost done that a lot of times this year, but decided to put a stop to it, coz I decided that is not the best thing for myself.
And if I do that, despite my loneliness, I know I would be wasting the other party's time and effort.
I KNOW What I WANT, and when I settle, I'm compromising my beliefs.
It would go against whatever other principles I have.
Thanks, but, I'm not getting any younger either. I don't really want to get into flings.
Well, I almost did that.. And I totally feel ashamed of myself for not sticking to my guns.
2) Ok, the reason is because he is in a Rebound. I cant and will not accept myself as someone else's Rebound case. Thank you, but I have my pride and image. I'd like to keep it that way. Thank You Very Much.
3) Hmmm...almost got into that one recently. It makes perfect sense, doesn't it? I bailed out even before I could touch the salt water on the beach side. Wait for three months at least for clearance before even trying to think about it. If that's possible anyway.
Imagine getting into the dating process, and halfway the ex decides that he/she wants to get back together. Hmmm..not a very wonderful sight to behold for the other party.
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