Get the message?

 You know, sometimes it takes many attempts before we finally "get the message"?

When something repeatedly happens time and time again, yet we do not see the picture. 

Using a story to illustrate my point,

when you see a behavioural pattern repeated as many as five times, 

and yet can't connect the dots to see the whole picture as a pattern of behaviour,

it just means you have to continue spending time to learn the lesson until you understand it. 

However, once you get that "aha" moment,

and people rally around you, to support you emotionally and mentally, 

that vision becomes clear and the mist then disappears.